The thoughts blow in uninvited during certain times of our lives.  And the feelings accompanying these thoughts make us pause, at least for a moment, and wonder how the days of our lives keep coming and going like the sea tide under our feet. Sometimes, we welcome these thoughts and can wrestle with a greater truth.  On other occasions, we don’t or just can’t.  So, we move quickly to replace them with thoughts we believe will make us happier.  Or, at the very least, thoughts that masquerade the reality of our current state.  Nevertheless, whether we welcome or resist them, we have no power over the truth of where these…