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Eyes Without a Face

January 15, 2021 / 12 Comments
This entry is part [part not set] of 152 in the series A 5-Minute Holiday
This entry is part [part not set] of 151 in the series A 5-Minute Holiday

A 5-Minute Holiday

A 5-Minute Holiday

Early on in the pandemic whenever I found myself wearing my mask at the grocery store, the words to a Billy Idol tune would come to mind immediately. Bagging my asparagus, I couldn’t help but hum “Eyes Without a Face.”

Over the last few months, I return to that song with every store I find myself in. (Admittedly, I sing rather than hum, but that is beside the point). Although I love 80’s music and specifically that song, something else sparked that song’s words.

With mask restrictions in place, maybe we are invited to a more profound way of looking at one another. Like most things in life, we are perhaps offered a more truthful way of seeing ourselves and others when we face limitations.

They say that eyes are the window to the soul. Over the last 9 months, I can’t help but be struck with the eyes of others. The eyes that smile. The eyes that seem to be afraid. The sad eyes. The eyes full of joy. In some ways, by covering our faces, we are able to see one another more clearly. By forcing one another to make eye contact with each other, in this case, out of duty, we are offering one another our souls.

What a gift.

Over the past year or so, the United States soul has also been exposed. Virtually in every facet, the strengths and weaknesses have been brought to light for the world to see. That said, healing and peace can only be attainable if we can be honest with this reality. For how can there be healing if we don’t know that there is healing to be done?

To be vulnerable as a person or a country is a scary place to be. That said, paradoxically, the strength that we seek is found precisely in and through our weaknesses. To neglect the open wounds would be to forgo the process of peace. At the end of the day, what we all yearn for is to see and be seen and know and be known as we are.

Sometimes it is through our limitations that we discover a deep insight (eyes without a face). Sometimes, through the cracks in what we thought our country and culture was, we can once again strive to be a beacon of light for the world.

Limitations and cracks can be a grace-filled opportunity for peace.

They say that all politics is local. If that is true, maybe we can begin to heal as a country when we start to hum Billy Idol together walking the grocery store’s aisles. As we pick out our bread and milk, we are offered an invitation to look into the eyes and thus the souls of our fellow neighbor.

Let the healing begin.

FYI…Next week I plan to post the first of the 5 Minute Holiday Podcast. We will be traveling to a bench in Worb, Switzerland. I hope that you can join me.

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12 Comments

  • Tony Ciaverelli

    January 15, 2021 at 11:41 am Reply

    We should use the eyes as an entrance to the heart. Once the hearts of men and women are exposed then the healing can truly begin.

  • Ann

    January 15, 2021 at 8:27 pm Reply

    Hi Brett,
    Love this Post!! When you say “Sometimes it is through our limitations that we discover a deep insight (eyes without a face). Sometimes, through the cracks in what we thought our country and culture was, we can once again strive to be a beacon of light for the world” it brought back the memory of one of my all time favorite book passages! Thanks for the memory!

    “Each of us starts as a watertight vessel. and then things happen – people leave us or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack open in places. And I mean, yeah, once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and we finally fall apart. And it’s only in that time that we can see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
    John Green – Paper Towns

    Looking forward to your podcast!

  • Deborah Bohr Violette

    January 16, 2021 at 5:24 pm Reply

    Beautiful insight Brett. We can all benefit from remembering and practicing what truly is a simple but kind gesture.

  • Daniel Oester

    January 20, 2021 at 8:26 am Reply

    Hi Brett – love your blog and love your openness to share your thoughts with us. I wish you, your family members, the people of your community, of your state and of your country the wisdom needed to have a good start with the healing process which hopefully will be a successful and sustainable one. As an “outsider” I don’t want to judge what has happened in your country but one thing is for sure: For me the US have been and still are the “natural” leader of this fantastic planet. A weak USA has at the end a negative impact to Europe and the entire western culture.

    The ones who are blaming the former president for what has happened do in my opinion not understand the dynamics behind this development which has probably started already 10 – 15 years ago. My preferred newspaper wrote this morning: The fire breathing dragon has gone – but the reasons why he was there have not gone! The development that we have seen in your country is actually something we can see also in Europe for many years already. Nationalism (and I mean the “negative” nationalism) is coming back. People with dubious reputation are elected in important positions – exactly for the same reasons as Mr former president Trump was elected 4 years ago. Maybe your country is just ahead of what may potentially also happen in Europe – let’s hope that I’m wrong!

    Greetings from Switzerland, Daniel

    • Brett Illig

      January 21, 2021 at 5:43 pm Reply

      Salut Daniel, thank you so much for your comments. We miss all of you and Switzerland every day. As for your thoughts, I couldn’t agree with you more. There seems to have been a shift towards the “negative” aspects of nationalism that has slowly been building for years. That said, I do believe the violence from a few weeks ago at the US Capital has caused many Americans to take a pause and look at ourselves and thus the world in a new way. Hopefully this will be part of the healing process. Stay healthy and well in Switzerland.

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